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责难无以成事

life这下博客长草了。。orz
该折腾的还没折腾,先除除草吧,有人催更还是值得欣慰的。

忙是一回事,主要还是心情呐。
偶尔发发牢骚吧,为人处事真难呐,三次元什么最讨厌了- –

青の夜明け – 磯村由紀子

唉,最近各方面的情况比前段时间稍有好转,但对某些人的某些行为和想法感到非常不爽。
总是在关注和做些不正确或不重要的事情,选择的优先顺序也恶心。

同时,也对自己感到惭愧,对现状感到很无力,甚至绝望。(喂,夸张了吧
当这些负面情绪出现的时候,很容易抱怨,很容易指责别人。相互的。
但这只会让不爽加剧而已。

责难无以成事
(via 《十二国记 · 华胥之幽梦》
仅仅责难别人,而不提出建设性的意见或行动,对事情是没有任何帮助的。

道理不难懂。
但要遵守却有点难,在受制于可行动的范围和能力情况下,建议又由于沟通问题而收效甚微,甚至交谈情绪激动后更引发进一步的责难。
从这看来,并没有指责别人的资格。

情绪难以控制,我并不是暴躁的人,相信朋友和以前的同学都不会这么觉得。
但在家里反而不淡定了,修为还远远不够。

从此,管好自己,这是我现阶段的首要任务,比起掌握一些技能、攒经验什么的都来得重要。
谨记责难无以成事。
从我能做到的小事入手,温和的提出意见,并把来自别人的责难以及不讲理当作对情绪掌控的磨练。

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